Aftercare

Aftercare refers to the care that takes place between you and a partner after an intense experience, whether that be sexual, sadomasochistic, or any other aspect of life. It can take many forms and it's vital that the needs of your partner (and yourself) are discussed before any play takes place.

Examples of aftercare

nb: not an exhaustive list

Hugs - Some people enjoy the physical contact of the person they've shared the experience with, and enjoy hugging after an intense experience.

Discussion - Especially if the experience you've shared has been mentally intense, some people like to talk about what's just happened so that they can process (or in some cases, rationalise) what's just happened.

Tea - Stereotypically British, tea, or another drink (particularly fizzy drinks or soda) can be a vital part of aftercare for some, it can serve just the right purpose in propping up someone's energy level after their endorphins are done.

Space - Some people process things on their own, and like to be left alone for a while.